Friday, October 17, 2008






where it all began.... It all started on the night of February 10th of 2007. My girlfriend Sirrus and I went out I think it was a Friday Maybe it was Saturday? We were just going to go have dinner in Temecula we went to Fridays. (after a 2 hour wait there-Grrr) So after our dinner we decided to go to the Stampede for one drink and I was pretty adament about only having one! Then we were going to go home watch movies and eat popcorn. (those were the plans any ways) So we go order our drinks (red bull, cranberry and vodka) YUMMY :) Were sitting there by the men's restroom (always watching for the eye candy) and I see this guy walk in, after seeing him I Leand over to Sirrus and said hey that guy that just walked in I'm going to marry him someday, she said what ever we laughed it off and went back to our drink which was half gone by now. So were sitting there and I wouldn't even say 10 min. later the man that I said I was going to marry was right there in my face wanting to no if I wanted to dance. At first I said no then yes then no then yes again, so we went out on the dance floor did the 2 step that I wasn't so grand at. So after our first dance we went and sat. Ordered another drink, sat and chat ed for a good while and after several drinks and hours later, they had some good swing music on I love that music, so I told Tracy lets go swing, so we were doing great, the song was almost ending, then it happened yeah, he drop ed me. I slid across the floor, laying there on my back with a croud around me asking if I was ok. Then here came Tracy scared to see my face, I was busting up laughing, in shock that he just drop ed me. So the evening ended short after. We exchanged #'s. ( The rest I cant tell) So the next day, he called we talked for 5 hours. We had so much in common, we laughed so hard. I invited him to my work for breakfast, he and his Little boy Tyler showed up, (3 days after we met) So they ate, went and got there hair cut, hung out at the park, and waited for me to get off work. As soon as I was picked up, he wanted to go and get my kids ( I would normally hesitate on this, I didn't even blink an eye and said ok) So we took the kids to Temecula had dinner and went to the movies. It was getting late so we headed home (at this point I was getting scared that I was falling for him) To soon I thought, 3 day's after we met. YIKES! So we continued to talk daily, he came up met my Dad and step Mom, 2 weeks after meeting I was packing boxes and moving to the Desert where he lived. (call me crazy, but that's what I did) So after living in the Desert for 3 mo. There I was packing boxes again he wanted to live in Anza cause he really liked it here. (I loved the desert tho.) So a few months have gone by, and we decided we were going to get married, yup 7 mo. later that's exactly what we did. So we got married at a ranch up here in Terwilliger called Silverado Ranch Estates. It's been a little over a year now since we've married. (we've had a lot of ups and downs, probably more downs then ups-but were smoothing threw things) We are now getting ready to move thank goodness but yet time to pack more noxes. A new start! The move may do us some good! So that's a little about how all of this all started.... Oh and by the way, swing dancing is still in practice, after getting elbowed in the head a fat and bloody lip, were still practicing... (The bloody lip was on our wedding night)-(boy was I peeved, all forgivin now tho.)

Saturday, October 4, 2008




But yet there's more... We also have Junior who is 10, Monica is 9 and Tyler is 7(closer to 8) I can now gracefully say, we've definitely got some kids....I wouldn't change it for the world.(although boy do we have our day's) So ill explain a little of the past 10 years where becoming a mother began for me... I was young when I became pregnant with Junior, i didn't have a pot to piss in, and I believe I even drove a hoopty for a car. Junior was a preemie Babbie, 6 weeks early, that was scary. He had to stay in the hospital for an extra two weeks... I was faithfully there every single day visiting and giving him my love. It was finally his bringing home day! Cherie was with me, he started crying and we both began to panic. After figuring out it was feeding time things were well. Yes having a newborn so young was a real eye opener. I had to learn patients and had to add an extra hour before leaving the house from then on. 7 mo. later I was again pregnant. I was so scared I was more worried then about taking time away from my first born more then any thing. So we had Monica, so different from Junior the pregnancy was great I went full term with her. She was a great baby....It seemed like her growing up came so fast. So at the age of 19 I was now a mommy to two. There was so much learning to be done so much responsibility to be taken. And so much growing up so fast for myself.There was many bumps and tough roads taken but I did it. After the divorce with there father, it was time to relax, and enjoy. I'm not saying those times were easy, but we were all better off. So some time went by and I met my now husband Tracy, he had a little boy from his previous, who was then 6. I fell in love with him the day I met him, he had the curly est hair I had ever seen on a boy! So we all moved into gather, that was a little harsh on us all to the new adjustment. Everyone telling everyone what to do and how to do it. Was a bit insane at first but were getting into the swing of things, after a bit of Missy boot camp for Tyler, and Tracy learning boy's will be boys.... Were still learning off of each other, some day will get there. Patients is a virtue. I am a strong believer in every thing happens for a reason, so here we are so may our journey continue....

Friday, October 3, 2008









One more member added to the family.... On August 23rd 2008 my pride and joy arrived! Carson Kenneth Boulton, He was 7lbs 15 oz. 20 inches. Well it all started the evening before I had gone into the hospital around 5:30 pm. To see if my water had broke. (it was leaking, but not broke) I was checked for dialation I was at 3 cm. They were contemplating on keeping me so they watched me for an hour and decided after the contractions that I was having, I was staying. So I called my best friend Cherie to tell her the news, before I could tell her I had a feeling it was going to be a long night she was already on her way! So by the time she had gotten there I was alraedy in my room. I think that was around 9:30 pm. So at this time no pain what so ever and still 3 cm. At 11:30 pm I was given the epidural, (awww so nice) So were all still waiting and still nothing. Now were looking at 3:30 am, this is when I was induced. And poor Cherie I kept telling her I was sorry knowing she had a newborn her self (5 weeks Zane was) at this time yup still 3 cm. So no one really getting any rest, my mom was there and left to get some sleep at my Grandparents house. Tracy my hubby and Cherie took turns on resting. So now were looking at the early morning maybe aound 7 or so woo-hoo 4 cm. (it seemed like forever) So I get the news that my Dr. wont be delivering another Dr. by the name of Dr. Bodon was going to be there, so this worried me a little...(I am so glad I met Dr. Bodon she was so cool kept everyone in the spirits of laughter, she told us her husband was a child physologist, and her 3 year old daughter say's my Mommy deliver's babies and my daddy takes them away! Too cute) ok so everyone is back in the room, Cherie, my Mom and Tracy, Dr. Bodon came in a little before 10 am. checked me and said lets have a baby! All's I heard was woo-hoo and a clap! (from my auddience) So I began to push at exactly 10:00 am Cherie got a phone call during that time from our friend Sirrus, who arrived just in time for Carson to be born. So i pushed and pushed and pushed (with my hubby's help on pushing on my stomach as I pushed) Finally 10:55 am Carson was finally here! So much hair.. And so much joy I felt to look down and see my baby boy trying so hard to open his eye's to see me! Cherie was gone out of there she missed her little guy so much! Sirrus stayd with me for a couple hours after and my Mom headed home to grab up our other children. And then began the well deserved nap for Tracy, poor guy was warn out HA-HA (who had the baby!)